Child Safety Online
There are risks for children who use online services. Teenagers are particularly at risk because they often use the computer unsupervised and because they are more likely to participate in online discussions regarding companionship, relationships, or sexual activity. Some risks are:
- Exposure to inappropriate material of a sexual or violent nature.
- Physical molestation: while online a child might provide information and arrange an encounter with pedophiles that could risk his/her safety.
- Harassment: A child may encounter email or bulletin board messages that are harassing, demeaning, or belligerent.
While children need a certain amount of privacy, they also need parental involvement. Most online services allow parents to limit their children’s access to certain services and adult-oriented chat and bulletin boards.
Internet Safety Tips for Kids and Teens
- Never give out personal information to anyone you meet online.
- Never meet in person with anyone you don't already know. People are often not who they say they are.
- Do not fill out any "fun" questionnaires that are forwarded to you, even if they're from your friends.
- Know everyone on your "friends" list.
- There's no such thing as "private" on the Internet. People can keep what you post forever.
- Do not answer emails or instant messages from people you don't know.
- Be careful about posting pictures of yourself or other people.
- Do not download content without your parents' permission.
- Never share your password with anyone but your parents.
From Common Sense Media
NetSmartz for Kids
An interactive website with 3-D activities to teach kids how to stay safe on the Internet. This educational safety resource is from the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children® (NCMEC) and the Boys & Girls Clubs of America (BGCA)
Online Safety Quiz for Kids
See how well you know how to be a safe Internet surfer.
Safety Tips: Internet Safety
A kid-friendly section from the Federal Bureau of Investigation website lists some important tips for kids to keep in mind when using the Internet.
Online Protection Tools
Online tools are available that will let you control your kids' access to adult material and help protect them from Internet predators. No option is going to guarantee that they'll be kept away from 100% of the risks on the Internet. So it's important to be aware of your kids' computer activities and educate them about online risks.
Many Internet service providers (ISPs) provide parent-control options to block certain material from coming into a computer. You can also get software that helps block access to certain sites based on a "bad site" list that your ISP creates. Filtering programs can block sites from coming in and restrict personal information from being sent online. Other programs can monitor and track online activity. Also, make sure your kids create a screen name to protect their real identity.
Getting Involved in Kids' Online Activities
Aside from these tools, it's wise to take an active role in protecting your kids from Internet predators and sexually explicit materials online. To do that:
- Become computer literate and learn how to block objectionable material.
- Keep the computer in a common area, not in individual bedrooms, where you can watch and monitor its use. Monitor any time spend on smartphones or tablets.
- Share an email or social media account with your child so you can monitor messages.
- Bookmark kids' favorite sites for easy access.
- Spend time online together to teach your kids appropriate online behavior.
- Forbid your child from entering private forums; block them with safety features provided by your Internet service provider or with special filtering software. Be aware that posting messages to forums reveals a user's email address to others.
- Monitor your credit card and phone bills for unfamiliar account charges.
- Find out what, if any, online protection is offered by your child's school, after-school center, friends' homes, or anyplace where kids could use a computer without your supervision.
- Take your child seriously if he or she reports an uncomfortable online exchange.
- Call the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children at (800) 843-5678 if you're aware of the transmission, use, or viewing of child pornography online. Contact your local law enforcement agency or the FBI if your child has received child pornography via the Internet.
Many sites use "cookies," devices that track specific information about the user, such as name, email address, and shopping preferences. Cookies can be disabled. Ask your Internet service provider for more information
Safety and crime prevention are everyone’s responsibility. Staying safe means learning how to behave in our homes, schools, community, and online in ways that protect us from crime. Staying safe isn’t just about not being a victim of crime: We also must learn to protect ourselves from being hurt by things such as fires or floods. Knowing how to protect ourselves is the key to being as safe as we can be wherever we are.
Safety is a concern even when you are in your own home. There are several things you can do to make sure your home is a safe one. Smoke detectors should be located throughout the house and should always have fresh batteries. There should also be a plan of escape in case there is a fire. Families should have a designated place to meet outside the house so that everyone can be accounted for.
Parents and even kids can learn to perform CPR. CPR, or cardiopulmonary resuscitation, can help to keep someone who has stopped breathing alive until emergency personnel gets there. Somewhere in the house, there should be a first aid kit filled with items such as bandages, antibacterial cream, scissors, and gauze. A separate kit should also be kept with items such as a flashlight, bottled water, and some nonperishable food. This kit could be used in case there is a hurricane or some other type of weather event. By taking these simple steps, your home can be where you feel the safest.
Children spend much of their day at school, and schools should be safe places. Teacher and principals work hard every day to keep students safe. One problem that students sometimes have to deal with at school is bullying. The best thing to do if you are being bullied or if you see a classmate being bullied is to go to a teacher you trust or tell your parents. Another issue kids in school deal with is peer pressure. Sometimes, kids will try to pressure other kids into doing something dangerous, like drinking alcohol or trying drugs. Choose friends who make good choices, and try to avoid kids who try to make you do something you know is wrong.
The Internet is a fun place to learn and play, but it can be dangerous. Children are taught not to talk to strangers as they walk down the street or play at the playground, and the same should be true on the Internet. You should not talk to strangers on the Internet. There are strangers there who may try to commit some kind of crime. They may try to steal private information or convince you to do something you shouldn’t do. There are a few things you can do to make yourself safer online. Always keep your password a secret, and change it from time to time. Ask your parents before you download anything from the Internet. You should also be careful who you connect with on social media: People may not be who they say they are. Finally, never, ever give your address to anyone you meet online.
The ways that we protect ourselves from bullies in school also apply to cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is bullying that is done with a computer or smartphone. People can be even meaner when they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is important to only interact with people we know online. If someone calls you names or starts being mean in other ways through the computer, you should tell someone immediately.
Playing outside, going to the community pool, and being on sports teams are some of the most fun parts of childhood. Keeping some safety tips in mind can keep them from turning into dangerous activities. When you are outside playing, try to stay with friends instead of venturing off on your own. Always let your parents or a trusted adult know where you are going and when you will be back. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, tell someone. And never get into a car or go anywhere with someone you do not know.
Also, be on the lookout for people who may be doing things they shouldn’t in the community. Vandals might write on walls or destroy property in other ways. Thieves steal things that aren’t their own. If you see any of this type of behavior, you should tell a trusted adult. Don’t approach the vandal or thief yourself, as that may put you in danger.
Look for "JGAPL - Public WiFi" while at the library.